
A structured system, real-life support, and simple tools to help you start a blenderized diet for your tube-fed child, without overwhelm
A System to Follow For Getting Started
Recipe And Nutrition Tracking Tool
A Place to Ask Questions And Get Real Support
A Community of Tube Feeding Families Just Like You



Where do I even start? I've been researching for months and I feel like I'm already drowning.

How am I supposed to add one more complicated thing to my day?

What if I get the calories wrong and it affects their growth or makes things worse?

We've already tried so many things that didn't work, what makes this any different?






Exact steps for trying purees through the tube

Suggestions for what to start with and how to know your child is ready

Options to move slowly, or whatever pace works best for your family

No guessing, no figuring it out alone


What equipment you actually need and what you don't to get started

Blender guidance and tutorials so you feel prepared before you start

Setup, safety, and storage covered so nothing is left to guesswork



How to blend and feed your first homemade meal using calorie matched recipes

No math, no wondering what to blend

Tutorials so you can see exactly what this looks like in real life


Ask questions and get answers without judgment

Connect with other tube-feeding families who are doing this too

Guidance that bridges the gap between your medical team and real life



The tool that makes everything easier when you’re ready to take action

100+ recipes already matched to your child's calorie needs, no math required

Blend planning, grocery lists, nutrition tracking, and shareable clinician reports

“Since we have switched to a blenderized diet with Hilarie’s method, our daughter is a whole new kid: healthier, throwing up WAY less, in a better mood and showing more interest in food.”


“BlendBuddy has become my most used app. It takes the daunting task of planning my daughter’s feeds and turns it into fun meal prepping! I actually look forward to mapping out my daughter’s meals and reaching dietary goals.”


“After signing up, my anxiety was at ease. I feel so confident now blending home cooked meals and knowing that my daughter is getting a variety of foods.”


A step-by-step system for getting started so you're not guessing what to do first or wondering if you're doing something wrong.

Ask questions, troubleshoot what's not working, and learn from families who are a few steps ahead of you.

A tool built specifically for tube feeding, with recipes, meal planning, grocery lists, and nutrition tracking you can share directly with your medical team.


The Member Hub walks you through exactly what to do first, what comes next, and why, so you're never guessing or starting from scratch.
✱ Proven (and simple!) steps to start blended feeding safely
✱ Guidance on things like fluids, equipment, and how to introduce real food slowly
✱ Dietitian-designed recipes that take the guesswork out of calories and nutrition
✱ Support troubleshooting reflux, vomiting, bloating, and feed intolerance
✱ Flexible feeding strategies for busy days, travel, school, and everything in between
Hosted in our private Member Hub, you’ll join a supportive group of tube-feeding families who are all navigating this together. This is where you can ask questions and get answers with zero judgement.
✱ Share what's going on without feeling like you're doing something wrong
✱ Get help thinking through what to try next when something isn't working
✱ Learn what's actually helping families facing similar challenges
✱ Ongoing support from Hilarie and the BlendBuddy community as you make changes and find what works for your child
Your family’s companion for using the system day to day, including tools for planning and nutrition tracking.
✱ Shared Recipes: A growing library of recipes in three calorie levels (1.1, 1.3 and 1.5 cal/mL) so you never have to create recipes or balance nutrition on your own
✱ Custom Blends: Make simple adjustments to fit your needs, without rebuilding recipes or second-guessing every change
✱ Blend Planning: Plan and batch blends ahead of time so meals feel predictable, organized and easier to keep up with
✱ Nutrition Tracking: Easily track your child's intake, including extras by tube or by mouth, without manual math or juggling multiple tools
✱ Shareable Reports: Generate reports for your team so you can see how things are adding up overtime without stressing about perfect days
Troubleshooting challenges as they come up
Understanding what to focus on next
Getting clear direction for your child and situation
Building confidence as you start real food
You'll already have access to the regular monthly member call. These bonus sessions give you extra support right when you need it most.
The Member Hub walks you through exactly what to do first, what comes next, and why, so you're never guessing or starting from scratch.


How to introduce real food slowly without disrupting your current plan

How to get started: equipment, setup, safety, and storage

How to use real-food meals that are already built to match your child’s calorie needs, so you can provide regular meals without having to build recipes or do the math

How to troubleshoot common issues like vomiting, reflux, constipation, and intolerance

How to handle real life now that blending is part of your routine: busy days, school, travel, and schedule changes

Hosted in our private Member Hub, you’ll join a supportive group of tube-feeding families who are all navigating this together. This is where you can ask questions and get answers with zero judgement.


Share what's going on without feeling like you're doing something wrong

Get help thinking through what to try next when something isn't working

Learn what's actually helping families facing similar challenges

Ongoing support from Hilarie and the BlendBuddy community as you make changes and find what works for your child
Your family’s companion for using the system day to day, including tools for planning and nutrition tracking.


Shared Recipes: A growing library of recipes in three calorie levels (1.1, 1.3 and 1.5 cal/mL) so you never have to create recipes or balance nutrition on your own

Custom Blends: Make simple adjustments to fit your needs, without rebuilding recipes or second-guessing every change

Blend Planning: Plan and batch blends ahead of time so meals feel predictable, organized and easier to keep up with

Nutrition Tracking: Easily track your child's intake, including extras by tube or by mouth, without manual math or juggling multiple tools

Shareable Reports: Generate reports for your team so you can see how things are adding up overtime without stressing about perfect days


“I’m new to the journey and felt so overwhelmed before joining. Coming in, having the videos to watch and learn while also having simple recipes, gave me the confidence to dive in and know that I CAN do this.”

“Our biggest wins have been sharing meals together. Only tubie parents can understand the true excitement about eating the same meal as your child, or ordering something through the drive thru for the first time for them.”


“My son with growth issues gained over a pound in one month! The recipes were easy to make with simple ingredients.”


“Coming in, having the videos to watch and learn, while also having simple recipes, gave me the confidence to dive in and know that I CAN do this.”

Hi, I'm Hilarie. I'm a pediatric dietitian who has worked with 500+ families navigating tube feeding and blended diets.
What I've learned is this: families don't need another complicated feeding plan that falls apart once they're home. They need their perspective to be heard, along with realistic options and tools that work in real life.
I spent years inside the hospital system watching families go through round after round of formula changes, medication adjustments, and feeding tweaks that kept symptoms under control but never actually solved anything long-term.
The families whose kids were doing better were the ones who had started giving real food. That's why I built BlendBuddy. BlendBuddy bridges the gap between recommendations and real life, so tube feeding feels more manageable and less stressful.
It's built from real family experiences, evidence-based nutrition, and the belief that tube feeding can still look like food, not a perfectly calculated science experiment.

Hi, I'm Hilarie. I'm a pediatric dietitian who has worked with 500+ families navigating tube feeding and blended diets.
What I've learned is this: families don't need another complicated feeding plan that falls apart once they're home. They need their perspective to be heard, along with realistic options and tools that work in real life.
I spent years inside the hospital system watching families go through round after round of formula changes, medication adjustments, and feeding tweaks that kept symptoms under control but never actually solved anything long-term.


BlendBuddy bridges the gap between recommendations and real life, so tube feeding feels more manageable and less stressful.
It's built from real family experiences, evidence-based nutrition, and the belief that tube feeding can still look like food, not a perfectly calculated science experiment.


Trusting your instincts again

Seeing meals as nourishment, not a task

Feeling confident in medical appointments

Relief and a clear way forward

Knowing exactly what to try next and why

Finally seeing your child thrive, not just get by

More time and space to enjoy your child outside of feeding

Second-guessing calories

Wondering if you’re missing something

Juggling recipes, notes, spreadsheets

Feeling tense before appointments

Carrying every decision on your own

Spending hours troubleshooting with little to no lasting improvement

Feeling like every change could make things worse

It’s been about two months since we joined, and after switching to real food and using these recipes, everything changed. We avoided another very serious surgery, she’s now tolerating bolus feeds instead of a slow drip, she’s so much more comfortable, and she is FINALLY gaining weight!
These recipes give me the confidence to tell our care team what is actually working and why we are going to stick with it. If they push back I can respond with nutritional values for everything I’m feeding her!”
Many families see noticeable improvements soon after introducing real food, which can make feeding feel calmer and more predictable.
You don’t have to go all in to see benefits. Even small changes can begin to shift things.
For many families, this comes after months of tests, formula changes, medications, and procedures. When real food starts to help, it can feel like the first approach that truly gets at the root of the discomfort, bringing hope back, especially because it’s something you’re in control of.
We believe tube-fed meals can still look like real meals, without sacrificing reassurance around nutrition. BlendBuddy brings a balance of structure and flexibility.
Recipes are built around consistent calorie levels, so you can meet goals without constantly doing math or second guessing. You can log what you’re using, see calorie and nutrient intake over time, and even send reports to your team, which brings clarity and confidence.
Finding recipes is not the hard part. The hard part is having flexibility while still meeting calorie goals.
Many clinic recipe templates are built to hit nutrition targets on paper, but they are not always blended in real life first. Families can end up with consistencies or volumes that don’t actually work for their child.
And random recipes found online can be all over the place — different volumes, different calorie levels, no consistency. You don’t want to gamble with your child’s calories.
BlendBuddy marries the two: structure and flexibility.
You choose the calorie level that fits your child, and every recipe follows that same structure. That means you can switch between meals, offer real variety, and stick to volumes that are tolerated, without redoing the math or wondering if it “adds up.”
It’s predictable. And it still feels like real food.
That’s exactly why BlendBuddy PLUS exists. If you’ve never blended before, it can feel overwhelming, especially when feeding already feels like a lot.
The problem isn’t that blending is hard. It’s that most families are told to “just blend food” without a clear system. Inside BlendBuddy Plus, we teach a step-by-step method that shows you exactly how to slowly introduce real food without blowing up your current routine.
You don’t have to overhaul everything, you just need a clear place to begin.
We no longer offer 1:1 services because we found families are able to get even better support through BlendBuddy Plus.
Instead of trying to piece things together on calls, you step into a clear system that shows you how to start, what to adjust next, and how to keep building from there. The same approach I used with families privately is now organized so you can follow it step by step at your own pace.
You’ll still have access to me to ask questions and get help personalizing things along the way, plus a group of incredibly supportive families walking through the same process and sharing what’s working for them.
BlendBuddy is designed to support your existing care, not replace it. You and your medical team set the goal, and BlendBuddy helps you carry them out at home with organized, calorie-consistent recipes and tracking tools.
Many families find this makes appointments easier because you can easily show what you are doing. If your team is unsure about blended feeding, BlendBuddy Plus includes additional resources to help you feel informed and prepared for those conversations.
BlendBuddy supports both children and adults using feeding tubes. The core challenges are often the same: wanting real food, needing structure, and not wanting to reinvent everything.
The system works across ages, and the recipes are designed to be flexible for different needs. Most of the step by step starting resources inside BlendBuddy Plus are geared toward children around age one and up, but adults and older kids use the same tools and approach.
You’re not locked into anything. You can start month-to-month, cancel anytime and switch between BlendBuddy and BlendBuddy Plus as your needs change. Some seasons you want more support, and other seasons you just want the tools. This is meant to flex with your real life.
If you’re unsure or just want clarity before joining, you can reach out anytime. We want you to feel comfortable and confident in your decision.
You can contact us at [email protected]
Your first week is all about getting oriented without feeling overwhelmed. Inside the Member Hub you'll start with a clear roadmap that tells you exactly what to do first and how to build from there, so you're never left wondering what comes next. You'll learn what equipment you actually need, how to set your child up for digestive success before you even start blending, and how our recipe system works so you feel confident and ready when the time comes. Most families don't blend in their first week and that's completely normal. Everything is paced so you can move as slowly as you need to, with guides that help you know when you're ready for the next step. You are never figuring this out alone.
Absolutely. BlendBuddy is designed to work alongside formula, not replace it. Most families start by swapping just one feed at a time while keeping everything else the same. You can move as slowly as you need to, and use formula whenever it makes sense for your family. The goal is to make real food feel doable in real life, not to pressure you into changing everything at once.
Facebook groups can be a great source of community, but they don’t give you a structured system. Most recipes you find in these groups were created for a completely different child with different calorie and volume needs, which means you end up doing manual math, second-guessing every meal, and piecing together advice with no clear direction. BlendBuddy gives you dietitian-designed recipes already built to consistent calorie levels, a step-by-step system for getting started, ongoing support from a dietitian, and a community of families who are on the same journey. It's the difference between searching for answers and actually having a plan.
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